That Special Moment; Bride to be

Becoming a Bride- to- be is always something of great pleasure, honour, delight and fulfillment. 

For her that period, she is like one who is blessed among women.It is the period that prepares you to starts realizing that you are soon going to be a wife and a mother.For some, it is an emotional moment, a happy moment or a surprising moment. It is a period that comes with great experience and accomplishment. It is the mindset that prepares you for the the blissful future ahead. 

Not all gets the opportunity of becoming a bride to be. So for a lady, it is always seen as a joyful moment.

Been a bride to be comes with great responsibility. A lot needs to be put in place for her great day. During this period, her mindset, her thinking, her lifestyle either changes or improves in bracing for what lies ahead for her. Sometimes, she imagines what the future have in store for her.

Like i said earlier, a lot needs to be planned for and put in place for the success of her great day. This period might be a stressing period for her or a bit relaxing for her especially if she has amazing Friends, Sisters or even a good wedding Planner who would alleviate her from so much stress. For her, she would want certain things to be put in place. So, she won't want to rest a bit. She just can't afford her "once in a lifetime day" to just go down the drain. She would want things to go well, who says she can't be a princess on her wedding day.

But, this is not always the case in some weddings, as the bride who happens to be the planner still takes responsibility of things that could be allocated and handled by close aided friends or even her family members. This makes her lose a lot of focus or even her charms on her big day. 
Most times, it isn't her fault as circumstances must have played its course on the plan before or during the D-day. So what happens to such brides is rather a manage-win situation.

Sometimes families including friends play a role in her"Bride to be story". Mums & Sisters are always so exceptional. like i said this could be stressing for her or a fun time for her. Plenty of mothers look forward to their daughter's big day with a mix of excitement and pride. They like to follow the trend of getting involved in the planning and choosing of venues, food & drinks for that day, clothes, designs, events to include or exclude, liking or disliking some ideas. They just want to be so pronounced or noticed on the D-day. Because to them, it is also their big day. 

For a Mother, it is one thing to nurture and watch her daughter grow and another to see her fulfilling every mothers dream which is" Her getting married".
However, others aren't quite so excited about their daughters' wedding. These kind of mothers find the process of planning the wedding too stressful to cope with, while others have serious misgivings about the marriage itself. 

Sisters aren't left out of the picture as they are seen arguing about who takes upon certain roles during the celebration. They get to plan events that would take place, songs to play, Clothes to wear, parties to hold pre & post the wedding, friends to invite and those to participate as the brides maids of honour. They aren't always stressing rather they could be a blessing in disguise saving you the stress if you know how to assign plans and manage their being a part of your big plan. 

Because it is their day as well, so, it's not a bad idea having them in your big plan. They really are a darling to behold including your amazing friends too.

So, Dear Bride to Be, during this period, there would be a lot of pleasant and unpleasant moments. they are all special moment in the history of your preparation. 

• I strongly advice you to always pray to God not only when a problem needs to be solved 
• Eat well and make sure you try to devote time for your self. I know the time period might be short for you to plan what is in your long list, but, if you don't take good care of your self, you won't look good & if you don't look good, you won't be that Sunshine you so much hope to be on your day. That would be a disaster, you might even break down. Those who have been through being a bride to be, they know the story so well. It becomes a good experience if you plan not to break down and execute it that way. It's not easy, but try to make it easy for you.
• You need to always try and keep calm and cool as much as possible. A glass of cold water might help you do the trick sometimes.
• Temptations might make you and your partner, family members or friends to have an argument during this period. Please try not to give in and always look for alternate ways of settling the dispute amicably without deep hurt, so that all you seek to be present as well as the required mood would be in the air on your D-day. 
• Also, try not to spend wastefully. This depends on how you want your ceremony to be. This also depends on your pocket. They say "All hands are not equal". Some want their wedding lavished, others want it simple, so this depend on how much resources is available. 
  
• Finally, try as much as you can to always look good as always so as to be that Sunshine you have always dream of becoming on your D-day.